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William

by william on 2005 Jul 24 - 00:18 | reply to this comment Passive = female, active = male I agree with the OP (Sarah Cavendish) and I agree with William (Nils) and Jeff. When I am dominating my woman, that has got to be an ACTIVE process. Being passive would make me feel like a woman and that's not my bag. I TAKE my woman, I take control, I penetrate, she receives me. Women are designed to be more passively receptive. Unlike Douglas (Interesdom) I wouldn't want to put myself in the female position of passively receiving. I prefer more intensity than I'd get in being served. I like to wrestle her down and take her and conquer her, and telling her to get on top and pleasure me lacks that raw power William wrote about.

Steve

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Jul 24 - 09:27 | reply to this comment So I am curious... When you say:

I agree with the OP (Sarah Cavendish) and I agree with William (Nils) and Jeff. When I am dominating my woman, that has got to be an ACTIVE process.

Does that mean that you (any of you guys who say that this is true for you or even any of the woman who responded that they don't like to be on top) always are in some sort of male dominant position (i.e. missionary, doggie style, etc.) when you and your partner make love?

I am just curious because, for us, *especially* my husband, that would get really boring. We have to mix it up. Sometimes he is wrestling me down with me demonstrating various levels of resistance, sometimes we go full rape scene, sometimes he lies there and tells me what to do (woe to me if I get something wrong and at least one of us tries to make sure that I do, LOL) and sometimes we just go at it like a couple of minks, though even then he is still very much controlling the action. There are a million different variations that we have to exercise because my husband's second biggest sexual need, besides demonstrating his own dominance, is variety.

Otter*

"The moment that I looked into your eyes, you owned me."